#123 A Beautiful Life.

A Beautiful life.

A relative-by-choice lost his father recently. Close to dying he told his daughter that he had lived a beautiful life and was ready to go. He was 100.

The words and thought stay with me. Would most of us choose “beautiful” as our life’s summation descriptor? Any skepticism i might have once had is tempered by the extraordinary people I have gotten to know in their 80’s and 90’s, a time I think may hold a gifted opportunity for transformation. 

What does it take to get past the perilous years of failing health, of increasing pain, and the sorrow of losing so many you love? In my mid-seventies, the view of these extraordinary elders seems as if the finest grit sandpaper has polished their senses to a burnished bright energy, a sheen of clarity we often refer to as “wisdom”. What stands out is an awareness, finally, of what essences of life are truly important, love, above all, tempered by a great forgiveness of imperfection. And yet this view does not suffer fools nor accept dark deeds, but urges all of us to rise to our highest natures citing examples of what might still be possible.

Our impatient culture seems to hold little tolerance for gray or white heads as they go about  their days moving slowly as older bodies require. The aged are often seem as using up resources more readily needed by those who are younger. Little do those passing understand the polished gemstones hidden in plain sight. 

 

One thought on “#123 A Beautiful Life.

  1. The ring of truth here touched me deeply. And of course it reminded me of my dad who made it to 99 and was filled with love and gratitude right up to the very end. Love you, Jane.

    On Fri, Dec 4, 2020 at 12:11 PM The Marginal Way wrote:

    > janedougall posted: ” A Beautiful life. A relative-by-choice lost his > father recently. Close to dying he told his daughter that he had lived a > beautiful life and was ready to go. He was 100. The words and thought stay > with me. Would most of us choose “” >

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